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crazy is as crazy does

As I’m thinking more and more, I’m becoming acutely aware that as I bring to light the essence of being that is Asshat, I am coming across as the craziest mo-fo on earth.  Because I would clearly have to be certifiable to have lasted 15 months with this person, whose portrait I paint so vividly. …

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dear st. elmo #2

Will you finally deal with your feelings of being cheated on by your ex-fiance and the end of that relationship???  Seriously, it’s been like 11 or 12 years already.  This is a prime example of how you don’t work through issues of your previous relationship before embarking on the next.  You may think that it …

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dear st. elmo #1

Wow, rush things much?  It’s been what, two whole months since we’ve totally, completely ended all things between us and you are already so embedded into a new relationship that you can make your Facebook profile a couple pic?  I don’t know why I am so surprised.  I know it’s your MO to jump from …

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taking a hiatus

I’ve been silent on here lately.  I have a million and one things that I could blog about, but I need to take a short break from blogging.  I’ve still been writing, just not publishing what is pouring out on paper.  I need to keep some things private and just for me. I will admit …

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self assessment (part 2) – intimacy

(Please note that I am not a psychologist and have no formal training.  I do not claim any expertise in any area of psychology.  Nor would I ever advise anyone else in any matters of a psychological nature.  Anything written, while based on existing psychological theory, are purely my personal opinions and thoughts.)   Up …

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self assessment (part 1) – attachment

(Please note that I am not a psychologist and have no formal training.  I do not claim any expertise in any area of psychology.  Nor would I ever advise anyone else in any matters of a psychological nature.  Anything written, while based on existing psychological theory, are purely my personal opinions and thoughts.) I have …

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random thoughts 5/12

Some random stuff: I finally got my old peepers checked out and I am happy to say that I am no more blind than I was the last time I had an eye exam.  I am pretty much blind as a bat without contacts or glasses.  But with my contacts, I have 20/20 vision.  And …

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i am my mother’s daughter

Believe it or not, I never actually told my mother the whole Colossal Douche Bag story.  Until I spoke to her on Mother’s Day.  I always meant to tell her the reason we broke up, but she never pressed for info and there never seemed to be a good transition into telling that story. On …

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confession #3: my new pj’s

Confession #3: I wear his boxer shorts to bed. This is a sort of new development.  It began the day after my birthday.  I remembered that he left some clothes at my place.  To be completely truthful, they are the most comfy things to sleep in.  I remember in college and right after college, I …

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standing on my own

I was very fortunate enough to find this wonderful blog post by Jeannie, about being alone, over at The Awakened Life. Because of my single status for much of my life, I am very comfortable with being alone.  I don’t feel the overwhelming need to fill my days and nights with social activities that have me …

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