Tag Archives: honesty

dead in the water

Some of you may have been wondering what happened with the OKC guy I was conversing with that showed potential.  Or you may not have. Here’s where that stands…nowhere.  I lost interest after we spoke on the phone.  We talked for an hour.  The conversation flowed.  It was a fine conversation.  But there were some …

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crazy is as crazy does

As I’m thinking more and more, I’m becoming acutely aware that as I bring to light the essence of being that is Asshat, I am coming across as the craziest mo-fo on earth.  Because I would clearly have to be certifiable to have lasted 15 months with this person, whose portrait I paint so vividly. …

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dear st. elmo #3

I keep writing and thinking and writing and remembering…all as a way to help me move on.  I need to keep reminding myself that you are not the one for me.  I need to take these thoughts and put them in writing so that I can see them and revisit them.  It’s not so much …

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frozen in time

There’s this woman I know.  I wouldn’t call her a friend, though we have friends in common and will find ourselves in the same social situation a handful of times a year.  Anyways, I’ll call her Karen (in honor of the singer who sings that Manhunt song in Flashdance). Karen’s single and on a serious manhunt.  …

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dear st. elmo #2

Will you finally deal with your feelings of being cheated on by your ex-fiance and the end of that relationship???  Seriously, it’s been like 11 or 12 years already.  This is a prime example of how you don’t work through issues of your previous relationship before embarking on the next.  You may think that it …

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dear st. elmo #1

Wow, rush things much?  It’s been what, two whole months since we’ve totally, completely ended all things between us and you are already so embedded into a new relationship that you can make your Facebook profile a couple pic?  I don’t know why I am so surprised.  I know it’s your MO to jump from …

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blah blah blah

That’s what I hear inside my head.  And now, you will get to hear it! It’s been awhile since I blogged about what’s going on in my head.  Work has been super busy.  I’ve no time to blog at work (dammit!), but I do sneak in breaks here and there to read others. So, more …

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epilogue

I had been holding onto this post for a really really long time.  It is finally due to be posted in its original form, although my feelings have changed since I wrote it.  I thought that it would be so difficult to get over the break-up and move on, but something recently happened that really …

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the american dream

Earlier this week at work, I attended a presentation that essentially highlighted the results of a poll regarding how those polled viewed The American Dream and the optimistic/pessimistic feelings toward their lives and situations now and in the future.  It also went on to show how the current economic situation has altered The American Dream. It was pretty …

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self assessment (part 2) – intimacy

(Please note that I am not a psychologist and have no formal training.  I do not claim any expertise in any area of psychology.  Nor would I ever advise anyone else in any matters of a psychological nature.  Anything written, while based on existing psychological theory, are purely my personal opinions and thoughts.)   Up …

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