first time for everything
Last night was a first for me.
I was stood up for a date.
The hot guy from EHarmony was supposed to come into the city and meet me at a bar at 8PM. I got to the bar about 8:05PM and scanned the bar (it’s a tiny place), didn’t see him, mosied up to the bar, sat my ass down, and ordered a glass of wine. By 8:20ish, I began to wonder if he was even coming, as we hadn’t had a definite confirmation. HOWEVER, his last text to me on Thursday was “Keep it for Saturday night, same plan”. I thought that sufficient enough to think that we would meet at the designated bar on Sat night.
When it was 9PM and clear that he was not coming, I decided to text bestie. She kept me company and in good laughs through another glass of vino and sympathetic looks from the bartender. Cause she’s the BEST like that. The bartender was cute. Young, prob late 20’s, but cute. And really tall. He kept giving me half smiles when we’d make eye contact. He asked at one time if I wanted a snack, because they do have “cheese plates”. It’s like he knows me! I joked with Bestie that he knew the way into my pants!
After I finished glass #2 and it was close to 10PM, I decided to call it a night. Luckily, this wine bar was literally half a block from home. So, it’s not like I had to traipse across town or spend half an hour getting home. Overall, it was a pleasant night. I enjoyed some yummy wine close to home. I enjoyed a chat with my bestie. I shared some smiles with a cute bartender.
I still haven’t heard from that asshole. I’m tempted to text him a “WTF?”, but it’s not really worth it. If he dares text me, I’ll rip him a new one then, but otherwise, I’m just writing him off. I don’t care how hot you are, act like a LeDouche to me and you can go fuck yourself.
Thanks, Kathrynn, for the check-ins and support last night!
I’m gonna go put on some whorey makeup and a whorey outfit and go meet a friend for brunch and to watch some football. And hopefully get my flirt on with some bar patrons.