is that what the kids are calling it these days?
Here’s the update:
E-Harm #1: Replied to his email saying “I’m sorry that you got the impression I wasn’t interested. Wasn’t the intention. I, too, wish you luck on here and in life.” And then immediately closed the connection after I hit ‘send’.
E-Harm #2: He emailed Tuesday asking to meet up one day after work and suggested this Thursday (which is now tomorrow) or Monday or Wednesday of next week, as he’ll be back in Baltimore all weekend. I replied last night saying that Thursday works (left out the part about my previous date/plans getting cancelled). Still, as of 11:00PM Wednesday night, haven’t heard back from him. So odd, since he was so quick with the responses before.
E-Harm #3: The cute guy asking for my phone number…ah yes. So, he texted me today while I was at work. Oh Red Flag, there you are. I responded. Then he asks if I’m feeling spontaneous these days. (Uh, okay, I’ll bite.) Yes, I am generally a spontaneous person. He asks “so, when are we going to make dinner together then?” I had no idea how to read this. Did he mean like literally cook dinner together at one of our homes??? We haven’t met, haven’t even talked on the phone yet! Or did he figuratively mean “make dinner”? I don’t know what the kids are calling sex these days, so I instant message a slightly younger friend and ask her opinion. She doesn’t know and I just respond to him “well, I think we should probably meet first before we make dinner together”, as a way to cover either base. He LOLs. I still message with my friend and tell her that I’m not opposed to “making dinner” – either literally or figuratively (hell, it’s been a long time since I’ve, you know, and he is quite attractive…) – but he should at least buy me a drink first! After a bit more back and forth texts, we agree that we’ll meet for a drink first. Day and time have not been set yet. Whether or not we’ll eventually make dinner together…Who knows?
Christ, I’m not ready for this bullhonky.