another one on the way to biting the dust
It has been almost four weeks since I saw “Jeff.” It has been nearly two weeks since I’ve heard from him. This is all not cool with me.
Granted, he may be freaked out for various reasons. When we got back in touch in July, it was right after I found out about the douche bag. He met me and my friend out at a bar and I explained everything that happened with DB. It was also revealed that I was with DB for 2.5 years on and off and Jeff might have figured it out that he was always just my rebound guy during my off times with DB. Dealing with those two nuggets of information could and probably should freak any guy out. Especially if he might have an interest in you.
However…for the two and a half weeks following the big revelations, he pushed to see me. Then we finally saw each other July 24th. I stayed over at his place. I fully admit that I was a bit restrained in my interactions with him, but my head was still pretty fucked up. I left in the morning (accidentally leaving my jewelry there) and thought things were fine.
The next weekend, I invited him out to sit in the park with some friends, but he declined saying he had work to do. I don’t doubt this as I know that corporate attorneys work a ton – I have many friends that are corporate lawyers. I invited him out to a mutual friends bday, he was out of town. OK. We joked around about how he still has my jewelry and that he “not only has it, but has been wearing it and hopes I don’t mind” and “that he’ll be in touch with me when he gets back to figure out when to give it to me.” That was well over a week ago.
I emailed him Monday, just saying “hey, how’s it going?” Nothing. No response. Now I’m getting pissed and you all know what happens when I get pissed 🙂
I get that he may be freaked out, but come on, he knows that all I want is the truth at all times. If he thinks that my head is still messed up and that scares him, then he just needs to tell me that and I can tell him otherwise or agree. If he doesn’t want to see me anymore, for whatever reason, then tell me. It’s all becoming a little too frustrating for me to deal with.
If I don’t hear anything from him in the next few days, then I’m so done with him. I’ll just tell him to mail me my stuff or leave it with his doorman. I don’t have the time or patience for this bullshit.