first date #1 – done and done
My first date with Brooklyn Runner guy… 4 1/2 hours long. I enjoyed talking to him. He was very nice and seemed totally into me.
Well, sitting next to him, even after 3 beers… I had NO desire to ever kiss him.
The conversation flowed easily and I thought he was amusing most of the time. I just didn’t feel any spark. Now, I am a firm believer in the spark. I’ve given guys second, third, fourth chances on dates and still… nothing.
I wish it was there. He seemed like a great guy. I know he’s going to ask me out again (and it’s not me being cocky and over-confident), he already asked me to catch a jazz show one afternoon in a couple of weeks halfway thru the date and then said he’d like to hang out again when he walked me to the subway. I just don’t see a romantic connection and I don’t want to lead him on. I’m going to be honest with him. I don’t even want to give him the “we could be friends” thing.
Ah well… Who’s next?